Addiction happens to real people.
The consequences that come from addiction happen to real people.
It is painful. It is messy. It hurts.
And too often, as with many issues, we talk about addiction in impersonal terms. We try to understand it, cure it, solve it, heal it. We don’t mean to, but too often we de-personalize it. Maybe we have seen too many movies and TV shows deal with it. Because when the show is done, the actor who portrayed the addict does interviews entirely cleaned up and we think the problem was resolved over the course of the production.
And then we see something that reminds us we are dealing with real people.
This post is from my friend, Zanna (she is the one who painted the background picture on this blog). Zanna is a real person dealing with the consequences of another real person’s addiction, her daughter.
to my beloved Attic crew and followers:
at this point in time, i’m willing to bet that there’s not one among us whose life hasn’t been touched in one way or another by addiction.
some of you know that my daughter Casia has been dealing with a heroin addiction for quite some time. years. this last year has been the most challenging, and she started actively seeking help. she finally realized that detox alone was not enough, and got into a transitional home a little over a month ago. the program typically lasts 6-12 months, and so far the difference it has made in her life is tremendous. i recognize my baby again. i’d lost hope for that. LOST. HOPE.
this painting was made after a day spent trying to get Casia help, after hauling her tiny, fragile, traumatized, doped-up body around, trying to make some sense of what was happening, trying to understand, begging all that was holy to show me what to do.
i don’t know where we’d be today, where Cas would be, without the tremendous support of our circle.
so here it is. insurance won’t cover the housing program. Casia is looking for work, in the meantime i’m doing what parents do and finding a way. as you can imagine, this is not easy. the sale of this painting will cover Casia’s next month’s rent, a little pin money for her, and shipping to the buyer.
i’ll be sharing this multiple times to reach as many people as i can. please share freely!
Look Away (Portrait of My Daughter)
acrylic on 12″x36″ canvas, applied only by fingertip, painted in one sitting
thank you, friends
And here is the painting:
If you would like to purchase the painting, follow this link: https://www.facebook.com/ZannasAtticGallery/?fref=nf
Maybe you cannot purchase the painting. But will you do these things instead:
Pray for the people who are suffering from addiction. Addicts are not problems to be solved, but people to be loved.
Talk to the people in your life who are suffering from addiction. Let them know you care. Let them know you won’t turn your back on them.
Be honest about your own addiction. Seek the help you need. It begins by admitting to yourself that you need help, and the next step is telling just one person, asking just one person to help.
Addiction is real. The consequences are real.
And so is the love we can all share with one another.